We have discussed here, here and here the small Crossroads community of interrelated mixed-race families who moved back and forth across the color line in the late 19th and early 20th centuries. David Rowe, perhaps born Rose, was part of this community.
On 26 February 1848, David Row married Exey Sasser in Johnston County. Sasser was white, the daughter of Josiah and Sally Beard Sasser.
In the 1850 census of District 9, Johnston County, N.C.: farmer David Roe, 30; wife Axey, 25; Treasey Horne, 70; Sally Sasser, 50; and Ruffin Roe, 1. All were described as white.
In the 1860 census of Kirbys district, Wilson County: farmer David Rose, 36; wife Axey, 34; son Ruffin, 10; Theophilus, 13 [no relationship designated]; and Sallie Sasser, 67. Sallie Sasser and Theophilus Rose were white; the others mulatto.
In the 1870 census of Crossroads township, Wilson County: farmer David Rose, 50; wife Exile, 43; son Ruffin, 18; and Sallie Sasser, 75.
In the 1880 census of Crossroads township, Wilson County: farmer David Rowe, 55, and wife Exeline, 54; also William Woodard, 50; wife Eliza, 50; and children John, 27, Clarkie Ann, 19, Calvin, 17, Montiville, 16, Claudius, 12, and Louisa, 8. The Rowes were described as mulatto; the Woodards as white.
David Rowe made out his will on 23 January 1896. To his “beloved wife Axie Rowe,” he left life interests in one-third of all his land, including his residence and outhouses, and his personal property and money. To daughter-in-law Talitha Rowe, he left a life interest in “4 acres of land on east side of the lane, including the residence of Ruffin Haywood Rowe Sr.” To Sarah, daughter of Talitha Rowe: one-fifth of his personal estate. All remaining property was to be divided among his four grandsons, James William Rowe, David J. Rowe, John Hardy Rowe, and Ruffin Haywood Rowe Jr. Rowe named James Newsome both his executor and the guardian of his minor grandsons and signed his will with an X.
In the 1900 census of Crossroads township, Wilson County: widow Exie Rowe, 70; grandsons David J., 23, James W., 25, John H., 21, and Ruffin H., 19; [grand]daughter-in-law Prytha [Piety], 20; grandson Albert M., 8 months; [grand]daughter-in-law Alice, 18; and daughter-in-law Litha, 46, divorced [from Ruffin H. Rose Sr.]
The final account of David Rowe’s personal property, dated 1 June 1905, reveals that his widow purchased the entire lot, mostly on credit.
Will of David Rowe (1896), North Carolina, U.S. Wills and Probate Records, 1665-1998, http://www.ancestry.com.